It should not be this way..

Misunderstandings start when both parties assume things here and there themselves. Neither one willing to talk things out peacefully and sort out the problem.
This is very unhealthy and after giving some serious thoughts, i WILL make the first move. I don't like it when i did not do or say anything and people mistaken me and start to hate me. This is totally unfair! I am prepared for the best and the worst situation that could happen, i just wish to clear out whatever misunderstanding there is hanging around till now.
Just hope the other party is mature enough to talk things out peacefully and won't brush me off because of hate towards me.